About
..hi, i’m meli. nice to meet you? a 34 year old, mother of none, sister to 8, lover to one, friend to few, colorful, silly, impetuous, moody, sensitive, loving, emotional, intelligent, dramatic, impatient, weird, goofy, crazy, creative, complicated, sexual, random, growing, positive, clingy, verbally harsh, learning, expanding, ghetto, freaky, smart-mouthed lesbian. Femme in style, strong in demeanor. Most mistake my strength for dominance, it’s your call though. Still finding my way in this journey we call life. Knows that a magical spell isn’t cast, blinders lifted and the purpose of life is not revealed at 30. Life still requires one to grow, learn and continue to bloom even after 30.
i love getting head, love, chicken, emotions, peanut m&m’s, sunkist, women, positivity, curve cologne, intelligence, confidence, balanced aggression, gentle hands, music, that swagga in your walk & height (i’m weak for the tall, dark ones).
musical style is truly eclectic. music is everything. it motivates, energizes, and soothes me. everything.
there is nothing more important in this world to me than L O V E. Have it most importantly for yourself and then extend it to others. people often mistake my harsh demeanor for bitterness, an untruth. i am in no way bitter, bitterness is poison. i have love for any & everyone that i’ve dealt with or have ever crossed paths with in a significant way. all were a necessary lesson & i thank them. allowed me to grow, see more clearly & love even harder & more completely this time. i’ll always extend my friendship to any of them.
friends come, most go & i’ve learned to accept that. i dont hang on to something/one that’s obviously been outgrown, it’ll only bring misery. bitches come, bitches go. i have no qualms about leaving you where i found you. ask around, mhm.
Random/Odd Meli-Facts:
- I’m a smoker (Newport 100’s Soft Pack)
- I will eat chicken every day of the week – prepared in anyway
- I’m very sensitive
- I’ve dated someone 16 years my junior
- I chew my toenails – yes, they’re clean
- I prefer baths to showers
- I don’t care for having long hair
- I don’t like women that are larger than me – but I don’t like skinny girls either
- I prefer large bottoms to large breasts
- My shoulders are the broadness of an average football players
- I suffered from low self esteem most – if not all – of my life
- I’m feminine but not prissy
- I have a deep admiration for black men – real men that is
- I love all music – except polka & jazz
- I loathe being in one area too long
- I love love
